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October 25, 2019
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When you push your teens too far. Bad things happen

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Helping PARENTS discover the parent their CHILDREN need them to be not the one they FANTASIZED of becoming.
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Sometimes what’s best for our child is not good for us. Especially when we let our egos trigger emotions that are based on our I. #teenagerssuck #awareparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #momsanddads #parentblog parentingteensishard #parentingteenagers #parentingteens #parentingtips #parenting101 #momofateen #lifewithteenagers #angryparents #angrykids #mommystress #parentinggirls #parentingboys #raisinghumans #parentproblems #bonusmama
#positiveparenting #singleparenting #americanmom #beingamomishard #mummytoboys #parentslove #intuitiveparenting #exhaustedparents #northernmamas

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When you just need a nap yourself and your husband though it was a good idea to pop a viagra just before the baby fell sleep.😩#mykidsarecrazy #myheartkid #boyandgirlmom #morethanamom #mommastrong #momneedscoffee #teendepression #suicidalgirls #stopparentalalienation #letthechildrenplay #childmentalhealth #growingupwithstrictparents #parentproblems #parentinghacks #divorcedparentsproblems #divorcedmom #divorceddad #parentsofteens #parentingteensishard #parentingteenagers #parentingteens #teenmomlife #momofboysandgirls #nonstopmama #trustyourkids #momslovetribe #momslove❤️ #momslovetribe #mommydaughtertime #momsarestrong

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We fail as parents when we let our ego’s control our emotions and reaction to our children. Come from the heart and take a step back and think before letting the ego attach an I to our children’s behavior. When we drop our egos we allow our children to fulfill their journey in this world. Or did we have them to satisfy the lack in our own lives? Where have you let your ego control your emotions? What would you do differently the next time? We can love them or control them but we can’t do both🤘#mykidsarecrazy #myheartkid #boyandgirlmom #morethanamom #mommastrong #momneedscoffee #teendepression #suicidalgirls #stopparentalalienation #letthechildrenplay #childmentalhealth #growingupwithstrictparents #parentproblems #parentinghacks #divorcedparentsproblems #divorcedmom #divorceddad #parentsofteens #parentingteensishard #parentingteenagers #parentingteens #teenmomlife #momofboysandgirls #nonstopmama #trustyourkids #momslovetribe #momslove❤️ #momslovetribe #mommydaughtertime #momsarestrong

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When we as parents are so caught up in life just keeping each day together with whatever resources we have. At times we stop seeing our children. Work, activities, laundry, dishes, dinner...We start taking them for granted especially as they get older because we believe they don’t need us as much. This is when they need us even more they need to be part of our parenting sphere of influence and love. So next time you have an opportunity to see your child. See them and acknowledge them. We can love them or control them but we can’t do both🤘#awareparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #momsanddads #parentblog#positiveparenting #singleparenting #americanmom #beingamomishard #mummytoboys #parentslove #teenagerssuck #intuitiveparenting #exhaustedparents #northernmamas #singlemomjourney #momofboysandgirls #nonstopmama #positiveparentingsolutions #respectfulparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #parenteducation #presentparent #stepmama #singlemomjourney #parenthacks #momstrugglingwell #momstress #childsupportproblems #consciousparenting #parentingpower #parentproblems

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Our lives as parents have came to a critical standstill. We don’t need food or shelter. But please give our internet back so the abuse will end. #mykidsarecrazy #myheartkid #boyandgirlmom #morethanamom #mommastrong #momneedscoffee #teendepression #suicidalgirls #stopparentalalienation #letthechildrenplay #childmentalhealth #growingupwithstrictparents #parentproblems #parentinghacks #divorcedparentsproblems #divorcedmom #divorceddad #parentsofteens #parentingteensishard #parentingteenagers #parentingteens #teenmomlife #momofboysandgirls #nonstopmama #trustyourkids #momslovetribe #momslove❤️ #momslovetribe #mommydaughtertime #momsarestrong

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When you argue you are in a battle against egos. Your’s versus your child’s. Who needs to step up and be more mature? That was a rhetorical question! There is only one write answer. Questions to ask ourselves. What is the real issue of this argument? Is this just a problem that needs a solution? How can both of us work together, parent and child to figure out a solution that we can both walk away happy about. If we want to maintain a connected parent status we need to do the unexpected. Because our children already know our parenting style and they are not interested. So do the unexpected because that is what gets results. Parent. Out of the BOX. We can love them or control them but we can’t do both and arguing to be right about something can be disguised as control🤘#mykidsarecrazy #myheartkid #boyandgirlmom #morethanamom #mommastrong #momneedscoffee #teendepression #suicidalgirls #stopparentalalienation #letthechildrenplay #childmentalhealth #growingupwithstrictparents #parentproblems #parentinghacks #divorcedparentsproblems #divorcedmom #divorceddad #parentsofteens #parentingteensishard #parentingteenagers #parentingteens #teenmomlife #momofboysandgirls #nonstopmama #trustyourkids #momslovetribe #momslove❤️ #momslovetribe #mommydaughtertime #momsarestrong

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Sure. I can also stick a rake up my ass and rake the yard on my way into the house. Being a parent helps us build skills we never thought in a million years we would need. Too bad the pay sucks. 😂 #awareparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #momsanddads #parentblog#positiveparenting #singleparenting #americanmom #beingamomishard #mummytoboys #parentslove #teenagerssuck #intuitiveparenting #exhaustedparents #northernmamas #singlemomjourney #momofboysandgirls #nonstopmama #positiveparentingsolutions #respectfulparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #parenteducation #presentparent #stepmama #singlemomjourney #parenthacks #momstrugglingwell #momstress #childsupportproblems #consciousparenting #parentingpower #parentproblems

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Did anyone tell us it was going to be easy? Our parents wished we had kids just like us. So funny how those curses are passed on from generation to generation so when your kids drive you nuts pay it forward. 🤘#awareparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #momsanddads #parentblog#positiveparenting #singleparenting #americanmom #beingamomishard #mummytoboys #parentslove #teenagerssuck #intuitiveparenting #exhaustedparents #northernmamas #singlemomjourney #momofboysandgirls #nonstopmama #positiveparentingsolutions #respectfulparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #parenteducation #presentparent #stepmama #singlemomjourney #parenthacks #momstrugglingwell #momstress #childsupportproblems #consciousparenting #parentingpower #parentproblems

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Comparing is #6. Comparing our children to their siblings, friends and even us. How do you think that makes them feel? How would you feel if your boss always compared you to other worker who in their eyes believes they are a better performer, smarter, quicker and on the ball more than you? Unworthy? Small? Stupid? Not enough? Unloved? Sad? Depressed? Angry? Something to think about when we speak with our children. We have to think before we speak and do a check in with our ego. Our egos are the ones that make the poor judgment calls that effect the growth and development of our kids. Ego fuels the need to do the comparing to satisfy our own shortcomings and lack in life. We can love them or control them and we certainly don’t own them. So what can we do? ❤️ Them for who they are not what we need them to become. 🤘#mykidsarecrazy #myheartkid #boyandgirlmom #morethanamom #mommastrong #momneedscoffee #teendepression #suicidalgirls #stopparentalalienation #letthechildrenplay #childmentalhealth #growingupwithstrictparents #parentproblems #parentinghacks #divorcedparentsproblems #divorcedmom #divorceddad #parentsofteens #parentingteensishard #parentingteenagers #parentingteens #teenmomlife #momofboysandgirls #nonstopmama #trustyourkids #momslovetribe #momslove❤️ #momslovetribe #mommydaughtertime #momsarestrong

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#awareparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #momsanddads #parentblog#positiveparenting #singleparenting #americanmom #beingamomishard #mummytoboys #parentslove #teenagerssuck #intuitiveparenting #exhaustedparents #northernmamas #singlemomjourney #momofboysandgirls #nonstopmama #positiveparentingsolutions #respectfulparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #parenteducation #presentparent #stepmama #singlemomjourney #parenthacks #momstrugglingwell #momstress #childsupportproblems #consciousparenting #parentingpower #parentalproblems

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Sometimes as parents we need to step back and allow our children to fulfill their own journey in this world. Let them take control of their destiny. Allow them to make mistakes and learn life lessons, curtail the need to burden their world with our fears. Take a chilax pill and exhale and let some things go and stop rewarding so much for expected behavior. Can we identify any of these things being done to us by our parents? Now we are projecting them onto our own children? They are here to live their own life and we are just a passenger on their trip to love, guide,
Mentor and support them. We are not supposed to have our hands on their wheel. That would make anyone angry and frustrated. So let go of the wheel now and again and see them begin to live their lives. You can love them or control them but you can’t do both. ❤️ #parentingteens #loveyourgirls #loveyourchildrenunconditionally #growingupwithstrictparents #stressedparents #sadparents #parentingteensishard #parentingtips #momstruggles #dadstruggles #mommystress #lovemykidsforever #teenagerstruggles #trueparents #parentingcoach #parentwithoutfear #parentwithpurpose #parentsupport #singleparents #divorcedparents #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #parenteducation #presentparent #stepmama #singlemomjourney #momofboysandgirls #nonstopmama #positiveparentingsolutions #respectfulparenting

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Never to have one. As parents when we are thinking about saying something to our children we need to take a step back and think before we speak. Think about what we are going to say. If we meet their anger with anger nobody wins. Does someone have to win? If we got at them with anger what do you think we will get in return? So instead of arguing allow them to have their own opinion because wouldn’t you rather be in love with your child than right. Our egos make us argue because it needs to be superior. Especially over the ones we think we own and control. Well we don’t own our children. They are human beings and have their own space on this planet. So next time you stop and think ask yourself one question. Is this me thinking or my ego. If it is your ego think of another way to help your child learn a lesson other than a fight or argument. You can love them or control them but you can’t do both. 🤘#teenagerssuck #awareparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #momsanddads #parentblog parentingteensishard #parentingteenagers #parentingteens #parentingtips #parenting101 #momofateen #lifewithteenagers #angryparents #angrykids #mommystress #parentinggirls #parentingboys #raisinghumans #parentproblems #bonusmama
#positiveparenting #singleparenting #americanmom #beingamomishard #mummytoboys #parentslove #intuitiveparenting #exhaustedparents #northernmamas

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As parents we get so caught up with trying to think about how we are going to fix their problems as they are speaking to us we don’t even hear what they are saying. They just want to be heard. Not fixed, judged, rescued or lectured. We need to listen with our ears and our hearts and not our mouths. So let’s listen like a connected parent and acknowledge their feelings and hear what they are saying. Parent. Out of the Box. You can love them or control them. But you can’t do both because control is an assumption of ownership. Just because we made them doesn’t mean we own them.🤘#stayathomemomma
#mykidsarecrazy #myheartkid #boyandgirlmom #morethanamom #mommastrong #momneedscoffee #teendepression #suicidalgirls #stopparentalalienation #letthechildrenplay #childmentalhealth #growingupwithstrictparents #parentproblems #parentinghacks #divorcedparentsproblems #divorcedmom #divorceddad #parentsofteens #parentingteensishard #parentingteenagers #parentingteens #teenmomlife #momofboysandgirls #nonstopmama #trustyourkids #momslovetribe #momslove❤️ #momslovetribe #mommydaughtertime #momsarestrong

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I miss those days when family and friends would give my kids the loudest toys. Hey. Why don’t we get Richie’s son a drum set. Thank you...I gave their kid a dog. Payback is a bitch. What is the worst toy someone gave your kid that drove you out of your mind? Someone got my son a fire engine and the siren was so annoying. What did I do? I took the batteries out and used it as an opportunity to teach him the word broken.😂 you can can love them or control them but you can’t do both. But you can certainly remove the batteries from their nightmarish toys.🤘#awareparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #momsanddads #parentblog#positiveparenting #singleparenting #americanmom #beingamomishard #mummytoboys #parentslove #teenagerssuck #intuitiveparenting #exhaustedparents #northernmamas #singlemomjourney #momofboysandgirls #nonstopmama #positiveparentingsolutions #respectfulparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #parenteducation #presentparent #stepmama #singlemomjourney #parenthacks #momstrugglingwell #momstress #childsupportproblems #consciousparenting #parentingpower #parentproblems

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We do it not even knowing we are. We learned it from our parents who learned it from theirs. Our children have their own plan for this world. Their own identity and are on their own journey. Just because we created them doesn’t mean we own them and need to control them. They came into this world knowing what they are here to do and it is our job as parent to support them on their journey. Not to create Mini versions of ourselves. Not to fulfill our own unmet needs. Not achieve the things we failed to do. Not to build up our egos. So next time we think about projecting onto our children our own fears, expectations and view of the world we need to stop and think about how the impact of the words that are going to come out of our mouths are going to fall upon our children. Is there any agenda that we are trying to satisfy of own egos? We need to think before we speak and let our children experience their own journey in life, allow them to form their own beliefs, make their own mistakes and chase their own dreams. We already had our shot so let’s give them a chance to have theirs. Then watch the magic that can happen when they are not trapped in a world that we created for them in our own image. Why do you think there are so many angry teenagers? They are living a life that they didn’t chose. You can love them or control them but you can’t do both. So let them be free.🤘#awareparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #momsanddads #parentblog#positiveparenting #singleparenting #americanmom #beingamomishard #mummytoboys #parentslove #teenagerssuck #intuitiveparenting #exhaustedparents #northernmamas #singlemomjourney #momofboysandgirls #nonstopmama #positiveparentingsolutions #respectfulparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #parenteducation #presentparent #stepmama #singlemomjourney #parenthacks #momstrugglingwell #momstress #childsupportproblems #consciousparenting #parentingpower #parentalproblems

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When our children and teenagers are yelling and screaming in fits of anger and rage. It is not for no reason. They are not spoiled, entitled or ungrateful. They are crying for our help and they still haven’t matured enough to properly handle their emotions. So anger is what we get. If we meet them where they are at with anger it makes them even more frustrated and makes us stressed out. They don’t want fixing, judging or lecturing. They just need us to hear them and acknowledge their feelings. So what can we do? When they scream and let them get it out and don’t interrupt. When they finish all we need to do is say. In a calm voice say...Please tell me more or I can see that you are really frustrated, angry (fill in the emotion). Then if they are open and have calmed down. ask them if there is anything you can do to help them feel better about the situation. Parent. Out of the box. You can love them or control them but you can’t do both. 🤘#teenagerssuck #awareparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #momsanddads #parentblog parentingteensishard #parentingteenagers #parentingteens #parentingtips #parenting101 #momofateen #lifewithteenagers #angryparents #angrykids #mommystress #parentinggirls #parentingboys #raisinghumans #parentproblems #bonusmama
#positiveparenting #singleparenting #americanmom #beingamomishard #mummytoboys #parentslove #intuitiveparenting #exhaustedparents #northernmamas #parentingtheshitoutoflife

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When we just want them to go to sleep they get that second wind. How do you get your kids to wind down so you can have some you time? #awareparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #momsanddads #parentblog#positiveparenting #singleparenting #americanmom #beingamomishard #mummytoboys #parentslove #teenagerssuck #intuitiveparenting #exhaustedparents #northernmamas #singlemomjourney #momofboysandgirls #nonstopmama #positiveparentingsolutions #respectfulparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #parenteducation #presentparent #stepmama #singlemomjourney #parenthacks #momstrugglingwell #momstress #childsupportproblems

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When we don’t ask our children empowering questions we lose that opportunity to teach them. Each lane question is an opportunity lost forever. “How was school” lame question. “How do you feel”. Lazy question. Ripe for the I dunno know standard reply. If you want to reach them and connect with them make each question so powerful that they need to stop think and if they look up at the ceiling you nailed it. They will thank you for it someday. Or maybe just not put you in a nursing home when you get old. Either way you win. So help them win and ask that jaw dropping question. You can love them or control them but you can’t do both. 🤘#awareparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #momsanddads #parentblog#positiveparenting #singleparenting #americanmom #beingamomishard #mummytoboys #parentslove #teenagerssuck #intuitiveparenting #exhaustedparents #northernmamas #singlemomjourney #momofboysandgirls #nonstopmama #positiveparentingsolutions #respectfulparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #parenteducation #presentparent #stepmama #singlemomjourney #parenthacks #momstrugglingwell #momstress #childsupportproblems

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When parents fail children lose. House rules of harmony. A parents guide to helping the family win. This book is a blueprint to help parents and children create house rules but more importantly a guide to help the family members understand one another. Understand what they like and dislike. What they love and they need. An opportunity to build a closer relationship with one another. It is a lot of work and if you don’t have the time, then that could possibly be a reason why you may be encountering parenting challenges and witnessing a disconnected child. Nobody told us it was going to be easy but here we are. This free guide will give you some recipes to recreate that connection you may have lost with your children and possibly your partner. The book is free as a gift to all the parents out there that are stressed out and figuring it out as we go. This book is dedicated to the memory of my son Richie as I believe his passing, put me on this journey to make a difference in this world one parent at a time.🙏. I hope you get at least one thing out of this book. Creating rules is just a subset of the guide. I created it so you could learn more about each other and bond as a family and discover even more love. A so to speak monopoly on steroids. Hope you enjoy and have some fun. All my love and support on your parenting journey. ❤️
#teenagerssuck #awareparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #momsanddads #parentblog parentingteensishard #parentingteenagers #parentingteens #parentingtips #parenting101 #momofateen #lifewithteenagers #angryparents #angrykids #mommystress #parentinggirls #parentingboys #raisinghumans #parentproblems #bonusmama
#positiveparenting #singleparenting #americanmom #beingamomishard #mummytoboys #parentslove #intuitiveparenting #exhaustedparents #northernmamas #mommyneedsajoint

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