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November 20, 2019
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Parental Projection that Pushes Kids Away

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Dad, Speaker Author, Traveler, Bereaved Dad😇. Coaching Parents to coach their Kids to Success , Hope Creator❤️, Doggy Daddy🐶 . Free parent coaching ⤵️

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If at first you don’t succeed. Try. Try. Try again. #awareparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #momsanddads #parentblog #parentingteensishard #parentingteenagers #parentingteens #parentingtips #parenting101 #momofateen #lifewithteenagers #angryparents #angrykids #mommystress #parentinggirls #parentingboys #parentproblems #bonusmama #positiveparenting #singleparenting #americanmom #beingamomishard #mummytoboys #parentslove #intuitiveparenting #exhaustedparents #momneeds #mommyneedsvodka #consciousparent

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Great question to see what our children think of our actions around the house. #awareparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #momsanddads #parentblog #parentingteensishard #parentingteenagers #parentingteens #parentingtips #parenting101 #momofateen #lifewithteenagers #angryparents #angrykids #mommystress #parentinggirls #parentingboys #parentproblems #bonusmama #positiveparenting #singleparenting #americanmom #beingamomishard #mummytoboys #parentslove #intuitiveparenting #exhaustedparents #momneeds #mommyneedsvodka #consciousparent

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Listen to them when they speak and set aside our own judgement, don’t advise them because most of them time they don’t ask our opinions and don’t rescue them when they become challenged because they will miss the lesson they are supposed to learn from problem solving. That is the way to love, guide, mentor, support and coach our children. We can coach them or control them but we can’t do both. 🤘#teenstruggles #teenagerstruggles #teendepression #parentsofteenagers #suicidalteens #inspiringteens #inspiringchildren #believeinyourchildren #parentingteensishard #suicideteens #stopteensuicide #teensuicideawareness #teensuicideprevention #parentwithoutfear #parentwithpurpose #childtrauma #momsneedabreaktoo #momsneedlovetoo #momsneed #momsneedwine #momsneedsleeptoo #momsneedmoms #momsneedabreaktoo #momstress #divorcedmoms #divorcedmomlife #angryteenager #mommyneedsajoint #mommyistatted #mommyisgettinghigh #divorcedparentsproblems

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I am going to leave this one as is. 🤘 raising a republican, Democrat or liberal? #awareparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #momsanddads #parentblog #parentingteensishard #parentingteenagers #parentingteens #parentingtips #parenting101 #momofateen #lifewithteenagers #angryparents #angrykids #mommystress #parentinggirls #parentingboys #parentproblems #bonusmama #positiveparenting #singleparenting #americanmom #beingamomishard #mummytoboys #parentslove #intuitiveparenting #exhaustedparents #momneeds #mommyneedsvodka #consciousparent

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This question will help you understand a lot about what they think about their world. A follow up question could be asking them a question about what do they think being a responsible adult means? This question is great for you to understand how they are watching you and seeing how you live your life. We can coach them or control them but we can’t do both.🤘 #teenagerssuck #awareparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #momsanddads #parentblog parentingteensishard #parentingteenagers #parentingteens #parentingtips #parenting101 #momofateen #lifewithteenagers #angryparents #angrykids #mommystress #parentinggirls #parentingboys #raisinghumans #parentproblems #bonusmama
#positiveparenting #singleparenting #americanmom #beingamomishard #mummytoboys #parentslove #intuitiveparenting #exhaustedparents #northernmamas

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Think before you speak. The language that we use with our children out of sometimes frustration and anxiety can have lasting negative effects on their emotional growth. Especially when the don’t behave as we expect. So in that heat of the moment stop and think about your next words and try to focus on the positive in that moment. There is always a positive and in the most difficult situations the positive is an opportunity for you to learn something about yourself as parent and to help your child learn something about themselves and life. 🤘 we can coach them or control them but we can’t do both.#awareparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #momsanddads #parentblog #parentingteensishard #parentingteenagers #parentingteens #parentingtips #parenting101 #momofateen #lifewithteenagers #angryparents #angrykids #mommystress #parentinggirls #parentingboys #parentproblems #bonusmama #positiveparenting #singleparenting #americanmom #beingamomishard #mummytoboys #parentslove #intuitiveparenting #exhaustedparents #momneeds #mommyneedsvodka #consciousparent

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I would give everyone the gift of hope. No matter what challenges we encounter in life if we don’t have hope we can’t see beyond the problem in front of us. When we ask our children this question the gift they they typically would give to the world is something that they desire the most. Once again a great chat to have in the car or at dinner and offering your own thoughts first to open up the conversation. We can coach them or control our children. But we can’t do both. 🤘#awareparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #momsanddads #parentblog #parentingteensishard #parentingteenagers #parentingteens #parentingtips #parenting101 #momofateen #lifewithteenagers #angryparents #angrykids #mommystress #parentinggirls #parentingboys #parentproblems #bonusmama #positiveparenting #singleparenting #americanmom #beingamomishard #mummytoboys #parentslove #intuitiveparenting #exhaustedparents #momneeds #mommyneedsvodka #consciousparent

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I would start the conversation by sharing 5 things about myself. If you go straight at them with this question they are going to to think you are on drugs. Great use on a casual drive or family dinner. Great way to find out what they think of themselves without asking that lazy question. How are you feeling? That is therapists chatter. You can coach them or control them but you can’t do both so guide them on their journey to success and be the life coach they require.. 🤘#awareparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #momsanddads #parentblog #parentingteensishard #parentingteenagers #parentingteens #parentingtips #parenting101 #momofateen #lifewithteenagers #angryparents #angrykids #mommystress #parentinggirls #parentingboys #parentproblems #bonusmama #positiveparenting #singleparenting #americanmom #beingamomishard #mummytoboys #parentslove #intuitiveparenting #exhaustedparents #momneeds #mommyneedsvodka #consciousparent

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Yes. Love letters are not just for lovers. Pass them out like candy. Especially to your children. Hide them in their book bags. On their doors. On their pillows. If they don’t live with you mail them a post it note that simply says I Love You. Habits are formed after 21 days of repetition. So give it a try today. And no I don’t own stock in 3m.
Use any type of paper or toilet paper if that is all you have. Yes...unused..who said there are no stupid questions? Make them special and be consistent and I promise you they will feel your love. Or I will refund your money. Oh yeah...all this advice I put out into the universe is free. So pay it forward to someone else. That is what our purpose is here. To help each other out. Want to learn how to coach your child to success. Link in my bio can get you moving in the direction for free. All my love and this is my love note to y’all.❤️ #awareparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #momsanddads #parentblog #parentingteensishard #parentingteenagers #parentingteens #parentingtips #parenting101 #momofateen #lifewithteenagers #angryparents #angrykids #mommystress #parentinggirls #parentingboys #parentproblems #bonusmama #positiveparenting #singleparenting #americanmom #beingamomishard #mummytoboys #parentslove #intuitiveparenting #exhaustedparents #momneeds #mommyneedsvodka #consciousparent

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My herbie. Being a doggy daddy is also very rewarding. They don’t complain, argue or take you for granted. Well Herbie talks so he has a lot of needs. Unconditional love that they make so effortlessly. Check out my bio to get free help to coach your child in hopes that someday you can share the same unconditional love that you have with your pets with your children. It is a lot more work but worth every second when the stars align. The goal of parenting is to connect to our children so they don’t Toss our geriatric asses into a nursing home the first time we lose the keys to the car. 🤘parent on and show some loving for my Herbie. @ollieandmyles_go_wild thank you jenelle for the amazing pic of Herbie. 🐶❤️ #awareparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #momsanddads #parentblog #parentingteensishard #parentingteenagers #parentingteens #parentingtips #parenting101 #momofateen #lifewithteenagers #angryparents #angrykids #mommystress #parentinggirls #parentingboys #parentproblems #bonusmama #positiveparenting #singleparenting #americanmom #beingamomishard #mummytoboys #parentslove #intuitiveparenting #exhaustedparents #momneeds #mommyneedsvodka #consciousparent

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Overprotecting, Overpraising and Overcontrolling will suck the self esteem and confidence out of any human being. So why do we do it to our children. Step back let them fail and they will learn the lesson they need, nobody learns anything from an atta boy for coming in last only that no effort is rewarded and thinking for them and constantly answering their questions when they don’t ask for our advice makes them feel stupid. Work on these 3 skills and your child will start to feel more confident and won’t be afraid of his or her own shadow in life. That is the way to help foster the growing of a child that is an emotional powerhouse of love and courage. We can love them or control them but we can’t do both. Free coaching classes in my bio for parents that want to learn how to coach their kids to success.🤘#awareparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #momsanddads #parentblog #parentingteensishard #parentingteenagers #parentingteens #parentingtips #parenting101 #momofateen #lifewithteenagers #angryparents #angrykids #mommystress #parentinggirls #parentingboys #parentproblems #bonusmama #positiveparenting #singleparenting #americanmom #beingamomishard #mummytoboys #parentslove #intuitiveparenting #exhaustedparents #momneeds #mommyneedsvodka #consciousparent

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When we only see what they’ll do wrong. How do we think that makes them feel? Stupid, not enough, not worthy, unloved. What do we think this fosters in their world? Low self esteem and low confidence. So what can we do? Embrace them and appreciate them for the good things they do. Focus on the positive and drop the negative. They we learn to love themselves even more and quite possibly you. Be the connected parent in their world. For free parenting resources to connect to your children visit my bio. We can love them or control them but we can’t so both.🤘 #teenagerssuck #awareparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #momsanddads #parentblog #parentingteenagers #parentingteens #parentingtips #parenting101 #momofateen #lifewithteenagers #angryparents #angrykids #mommystress #parentinggirls #parentingboys #raisinghumans #parentproblems #bonusmama
#positiveparenting #singleparenting #americanmom #beingamomishard #mummytoboys #parentslove #intuitiveparenting #exhaustedparents #northernmamas #consciousparent

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Because I said so. Said the Authoritarian parent to the belittled and crushed self esteem child. What parenting style are you? Authoritarian. Authoritative, permissive or uninvolved there is only one really good one. The rest create challenges for their children. We can control them or love them but we can’t do both.🤘#awareparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #momsanddads #parentblog #parentingteensishard #parentingteenagers #parentingteens #parentingtips #parenting101 #momofateen #lifewithteenagers #angryparents #angrykids #mommystress #parentinggirls #parentingboys #parentproblems #bonusmama #positiveparenting #singleparenting #americanmom #beingamomishard #mummytoboys #parentslove #intuitiveparenting #exhaustedparents #momneeds #mommyneedsvodka #consciousparent

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They Most likely will say I DUNNO to this one. But maybe worth a try. I know they can’t all be amazing but another resource to tap into doesn’t do any harm. 🤘 #awareparenting #stepmumlife #stepmomadvice #momsanddads #parentblog #parentingteensishard #parentingteenagers #parentingteens #parentingtips #parenting101 #momofateen #lifewithteenagers #angryparents #angrykids #mommystress #parentinggirls #parentingboys #parentproblems #bonusmama #positiveparenting #singleparenting #americanmom #beingamomishard #mummytoboys #parentslove #intuitiveparenting #exhaustedparents #momneeds #mommyneedsvodka #consciousparent

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